As an engaged couple, you know there are a million and one things to do to prepare for your wedding. One of the most important things to consider is your social media presence. Your Facebook page isn’t just a place to post cute selfies and announce your bachelorette party; it’s also a reflection of your relationship.
This is why it’s important to be aware of the essential do’s and don’ts of social media etiquette. This guide will help you navigate the world of Facebook, providing advice on how to promote your relationship positively while avoiding any potential conflicts or drama.
With the right approach, you can use social media to keep your friends and family up-to-date on the latest wedding news and even create a beautiful online scrapbook of your special day. So whether it’s a heartfelt status update or a hilarious meme, let this guide be your go-to resource for social media success!
What is Facebook Etiquette?
Facebook, like all of social media platforms, has its own set of social rules. Whether you’re a veteran user or you’re just getting started, it’s important to know how to navigate the world of social media etiquette.
This is especially important for engaged couples who want to use social media as a means of keeping their friends and family close. Although there are no hard and fast rules, there are certain guidelines you can follow to make your experience on social media a positive one.
Facebook offers an excellent resource to help new couples get started on the right foot. Let’s take a closer look at what exactly Facebook etiquette is and how it can be used to create a positive and successful social media experience.
Do’s of Facebook Etiquette
These are the basics of Facebook etiquette that every couple should follow when creating their page. Ensure that your photos are respectful; you should never post anything that would hurt someone’s feelings.
For example, don’t post pictures of your fiancé kissing another woman. Likewise, don’t post pictures of your fiancé kissing another man. Next, ensure that you follow the publication guidelines of your state. This means staying within your state’s laws regarding child pornography, racism and inciting violence.
a. Post updates about your wedding
This one is pretty self-explanatory. As your wedding date approaches, make sure to keep your followers up-to-date with your wedding news. Update your status with the date and location of your ceremony, as well as the date of your honeymoon. You can even include photos from your wedding day to add a personal touch to your updates.
If you’re getting married overseas, you can even share updates about your special day in a different language. This can help to increase engagement on your page and show your followers that you care about them.
b. Create an online scrapbook
Another great way to keep your followers updated is by creating an online scrapbook. This can be a great way to share photos of your special day, even years later. You can also use the scrapbook to post photos of your wedding guests or highlight funny moments from the day.
Another way that scrapbooks can help is by providing potential guests with a glimpse into the life of your fiancé and you. Your scrapbook can also be used to post anniversary messages, engagement announcements and other anniversary celebrations.
c. Show appreciation for your friends and family
This rule is especially important for engaged couples who want to use social media as a way of keeping family and friends close. When you comment on other people’s posts, you can give them nice comments by using the “@” symbol before the person’s name.
You can also use this feature to show appreciation for those who have supported you throughout your relationship. For example, you can post about how much your fiancé’s brother has meant to you or how much your parents have supported you throughout your life.
Don’ts of Facebook Etiquette
We all make mistakes—especially when it comes to social media. However, there are certain things that should never happen on social media.
Avoid posting images or videos of your fiancé kissing or having any other type of romantic relationship. You should also refrain from oversharing, which is when you post too many photos or videos of your special day.
a. Refrain from posting about wedding drama
No matter how happy you are on your wedding day, something is bound to happen that will upset you. This is why it’s always important to remember to stay calm and avoid posting about anything that might cause you to get upset.
If someone posts a negative status about your wedding, try to stay calm and remember that there are probably other ways of dealing with the situation. If you can do this, you can avoid causing any damage to your wedding day.
b. Avoid oversharing
Oversharing is when you post too many images or videos of your special day online. This is a common mistake among engaged couples, and it can cause serious damage to your wedding day.
You don’t have to post every photo or video you take at your wedding, but you should post some of your most memorable ones. You can also use this guide to reduce the number of photos you post online by using appropriate hashtags when posting images.
c. Don’t post too often
All social media platforms have limits on how often you can post something. For example, on Twitter, you can only tweet 13 tweets a day. This is why it’s important to remember that you can’t post everything that comes to your mind.
Frequent posting on social media isn’t healthy and can become overwhelming. It’s better to post a couple of times a week than to post too often. While you don’t want to be too reserved, you don’t want to be posting too much either.
Conclusion
Facebook is an important part of any engaged couple’s relationship. It can be used to keep your friends and family close, promote your relationship to future dates and even create an online scrapbook of your special day. Engaged couples have a responsibility to use social media responsibly, though, and these are the do’s and don’ts of Facebook etiquette.
