Marriage can be a wonderful, intimate, and fulfilling experience. But like any relationship, marriage can also become routine and less exciting than you’d like it to be.
Keeping the passion in your marriage alive can be difficult for anyone, but with the right approach and some effort, you can keep the fire burning for years to come. We all know that love fades over time in a marriage. It is an inevitable part of any long-term partnership.
However, this does not mean that your marriage has to fall apart or remain stagnant for the rest of your lives together. To spice up your marriage, again and again, will require some effort from both of you. But trust us when we say that it is entirely worth it in the end.
If you feel like the spark between you and your spouse has gone out of a once raging inferno of love, then read these ten tips on how to spice up your marriage again!
Talk about the things you love.
If you are in a rut, you might have stopped doing the things you used to do together. You have to keep the love you have between you alive by being sure to do things that you both love. Get back to doing the things that brought you together in the first place.
These could be an activity you used to do as a couple or something new that you both want to try together. For example, if you used to go out to eat at a certain restaurant a lot when you were dating, then go back there. Or if you and your spouse used to go for walks together, then do that again. If you loved to play a certain sport together, then play it together again. Do whatever it is that you both loved to do.
Have date nights.
Spend some time alone with your spouse. Have date nights every week or at least once a month. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy, nor does it have to be costly. All that matters is you are spending time together and getting to know each other again.
Do things together that will help you get to know one another better and spark conversation. You can try going to a local museum, seeing a documentary, or going for a walk together. You can also cook a meal together or go out for drinks at a bar or a coffee shop.
These date nights should be focused on the two of you. No kids, no friends, no TV, just you and your spouse. At the end of the night, before you go to bed, you should make sure to have a blanket fort or cuddle time with each other. This will help you get close again by physically touching each other.
Go on a vacation together.
Get away from it all and spend time with each other. Go on a vacation with your spouse and your kids, if they are old enough. Go to a place that you’ve never been to before. This will help you and your spouse gets reacquainted with each other by getting you out of your normal environment.
Try to do something fun on this vacation that you’ve both never done before. This will help you get out of your normal routine and be someone new together. You’ll also get to do something you both love and remember this trip for the rest of your lives.
Try new activities together.
Find new activities to try that are related to something you both love. For example, if you love reading, then start a book club together. If you love art, then try taking an art class together. If you love sports, then try playing a new sport together.
Find something that you both love to do, and try to do it together. Doing new activities together will help you get out of your normal routine and spend more time with each other. It will also help you find new things that you love and things that you both love.
Talk, but don’t argue, about the things you don’t like.
When you’re talking with your spouse, make sure to talk about the things that you don’t like. This will help you and your spouse gets to know each other again and help you build a stronger relationship.
You don’t want to just talk about the things that you like, because that doesn’t help you get to know each other better or build a stronger relationship. Talking about the things you don’t like also can help you come up with solutions to the issues you’re having.
Take care of your physical health and appearance.
Keep your body fit and healthy. Eat healthy foods and exercise regularly. Do whatever it is that you need to do to maintain a healthy weight.
Physical health and appearance will help you feel better about yourself and how you look. Your spouse will appreciate you looking your best as well. Take care of your skin and hair, and make sure to get any necessary beauty treatments for your skin and hair.
This will help you look your best and make you feel confident in yourself again. This will also make your spouse appreciate you for who you are and make them want to be closer to you.
Learn to give and receive non-sexual affection.
Give and receive non-sexual affection. Make sure to keep the love between you alive by giving and receiving non-sexual affection. Which includes holding hands with each other, cuddling with each other, giving your spouse a massage, and more.
This is especially important when you and your spouse are going through hard times in your lives. Having non-sexual affection in your relationship can help you and your spouse get through the hard times. It will help you feel better and be more connected with each other.
Use touch to show your love and desire for each other.
Use touch to show your love and desire for each other. Touch each other as much as possible, but do it in a non-sexual way. Touch each other when you’re doing things together, like when you’re watching TV or reading a book together, and when you’re out and about.
Also, try to touch each other as often as you can when you’re in bed together. Touch is an important part of any relationship. It shows that you care about the one you love and makes you both feel closer.
It will also help you and your spouse get more in the mood for sex again, which is another great benefit to using touch more often.
Spice up your sex life.
If you feel like the spark between you and your spouse has gone out of a once raging inferno of love, then you might need to spice up your sex life.
There are some ways you can do this. First, make sure you and your spouse have enough time to have sex. If you have kids, then you need to make sure they are in bed and asleep before you start having sex.
If you have a busy lifestyle, then you might have to make time for sex. Try to have sex at least once a week, if not more often, to keep the spark between you burning.
Conclusion
These ten tips will help you spice up your marriage again and again. However, remember that marriage is about more than just the physical aspects.
You need to be open to new experiences and be willing to try new things together. Most importantly, remember to communicate with each other. Talk about what you both love and don’t like in your relationship.
